Monday, March 8, 2010

空气

最近听到有人说,他的爱情就如空气一样。没有空气,他会死。


OMG。。。吓死人了!爱到这样可怕,会让人死?未免太严重了吧?

难道没有爱,没有伴侣,人生就没有希望,没有快乐吗?


这是绝对否定的。


Question: 人为什么认为有伴侣就是快乐;没伴侣就是不快乐


Answer: 因为有对待心,分别心,才产生了这种对与错的观念。


持有这种观念的你,是否对自己,对人生,对‘快乐’的定义画得有点狭窄了?如果生命的满足与快乐只建筑在这个‘有’与‘没有’的境界,那我觉得太可悲了。


世间凡人追求名利。因为有求,内心就有对待,产生了分别。有了分别、执着种种的事物,所以产生了痛苦。有了=快乐;没有了=痛苦。。。这是对的吗?


即使你拥有了一个人或物,那也只不过是暂时让你拥有而已。你不可能永远的拥它有。因为一切人和物,究竟还是‘缘聚’而成,‘缘散’而灭。可惜世人就为了这个‘曾经拥有’而把一生都赔了。


也不是说做人要无情。适当的爱就好。温柔的爱最甜。轻松、自然的爱最舒服。不是吗?不必抓得太紧。


但有些人就偏喜欢‘透不过气’的爱,爱你爱到死,死后还不放过,下辈子还要来再爱一回。


你呢?

Thursday, January 7, 2010

只不过是种感觉而已

不经意的觉得自己的生活有点 肤浅。

每天都为了生活而忙碌。赚钱。奋斗!
然后就睡觉。之后又是另一天的开始。
难道人生就是这样而已?

也不是。有些人的生命就是比较有“立体感”。
有意义。做的事情可以改变别人的世界。

你呢?
你的生活有立体感吗?有更深一层的意义吗?
还是整天在忙与茫之间拼搏?

多钱与少钱之间,只是一种感觉而已

试想,如果今天给你百万千万,你的生活会截然不同吗?
你处事待人会比较圆满吗?
你的言行举止会因这百千万而突然变得更完美吗?
你的快乐是永恒的,还是短暂的兴奋而已,最后还是空虚人生一场?

有求皆苦

有执著,有欲望,毕竟是苦的开始。
不贪求,不执著,认清生命的真正使命才是最重要的。
你的使命又是什么呢?
是拼命赚那些赚不完的钱,还是用有限的生命换取永恒的幸福?

把眼光放远一点。
什么是短暂,什么是永恒。。。马上能看清。

Saturday, September 26, 2009

分开

因为误会而在一起。。。由于了解而分开?

在一个星期六的早晨,无意间想起这个人生点滴。
多少人因为误会而凑在一起?

可能一凑就是好几年的时间。毫无目的,没有原因,慕名奇妙的凑在一起。然后就因为了解到原来是在阴差阳错之下而缘聚。究竟还是要缘散。

出发心错了,怎可能永久呢?

既然是这样,那又何必为此而难过呢?

心境是净土,也可以是地狱。。。只要转个念就雨过天晴。

Sunday, July 19, 2009

The Unguarded Moment

The Unguarded Moment is the first solo S'pore exhibit of Steve Mc Curry - the guy famous for the iconic NatGeo front cover Afghan Girl:



I had the pleasure of visiting his exhibit on a lazy Sunday noon. Not only are his works awe-inspiring... but more so on his thoughts & philosophies in this field of art.



"When people asked me what they should do to become a photographer, I seldom mention cameras or techniques. I say, 'If you want to be a photographer, first leave home'"... My life is shaped by the urgent need to wander & observe, & my camera is my passport.

but then... do u really have to leave home?
it's like wandering all across the world looking for "myself" while all along, "myself" is with me!

Talking about cameras... I find it funny when I see increasing numbers of photo-wannabes toting machine-gun-sized black SLRs & bazooka-sized lenses (& equally fierce-looking tripods)... & then thought they can turn themselves into a "pro" by wearing the trademark brown uniform with big pockets, for I dunno what =.=

I'm definitely not a photo-person; but still I made a mental effort not to be like one of them.

As I said, many of 'em are just using technologies to over-compensate their natural deficiencies. Perhaps a fierce-looking machine-gun camera will squash all doubts outsiders have on their lack of capabilities (hey, their cameras look mean & expensive; surely they must be pros?).

Anyway, wanabes with mean-looking cameras are the least of my concerns. I just wana enjoy the exhibits (:


"Most of my images are grounded in people. I look for the unguarded moment, the essential soul peeking out, experience etched on a person's face. I try to convey what it is like to be that person, a person caught in the broader landscape, that you can call the human condition."





Bro Dom admiring another iconic piece...

"If you wait," he realised, "people will forget your camera and the soul will drift up into view"

How true. I think giant SLRs will just scare off all the souls?



uhh... & they have the Photo Contest too! Where winners will get to win - u know what - Epson printers =.="""


... oh, anyway, all those shots above are taken by Nokia E71; NOT taken by SLR (cos I dun have one!) & I dun wish to be yet another wanabe-pro haha >< ... and thereafter, we did the unthinkable - visit BWM showroom O.o''' According to the sales person... it's SO AFFORDABLE!! Better scrape ur car & trade in for a BMW!! *woah*... luckily we din walk out of the showroom 10yrs into debt *phew* Anyhow, here's a very attractive proposition: BWM120i convertible S$158,800 ^^ maybe I should pen it down as one of my goals? hee hee...




Thursday, June 26, 2008

Morning Dew...

Does anyone ever stop in his track, sit by the path side and observe the morning dew? Does anyone know how the blades of tiny grasses move in a breeze?

Ain't our lives as fragile as a drop of morning dew?

Transience.
Precarious on a blade of grass, the morning dew lives only
until the morning warmth takes it away. It leaves without a trace. Nothing is felt. Have we made our lives felt? Or are we just going to exit the world like the morning dew?

Pure.
The morning dew shines like a diamond. The crystallization of the coolness of the night.

Love.
I was wrong. The morning dew did not live in vain.

How many creatures benefited from the nourishment of the morning dew? How it provide much needed water to the little lives on the field? That much it did for the world around it without taking any credits.

I learnt much from the morning dew today.

In a way, the morning dew has accomplished more in its few hours of existence than many of us ever had in a life time.

I must learn more from the morning dew (:

Sunday, April 20, 2008

Beauty is only skin deep


美:只是这么短占

那什么才是“真”的呢?

OMG!!! Who in the world would expect "the most beautiful woman in Spore" (many yrs ago) to turn into liddat... *faint*

The transience of beauty.

Friday, April 11, 2008

The best of times; the worst of times

Journey of the monk...
  • 2003 ~ Recession. Thrown into a confused world
  • Feb '05 ~ Stumbled into an even more confused job
  • Dec '05 ~ Is a car an asset or liability? Ans: a money-drainer
  • Dec '06 ~ 大计谋
  • 2007 ~ The best of times. The worst of times. Here comes monkhood
  • May '07 ~ In search of liberation
  • 31 Dec '07 ~ 山穷水尽疑无路,柳暗花明又一村 ... the truth is within you. Always.
... And so, life goes on


"领悟过黑夜与白昼的短暂,自会珍惜眼前的一切人和事"
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